Sunday 27 January 2013

How negative thoughts can harm your health


“One person with a belief is equal to a force of ninety-nine who have only interests.” 
― John Stuart Mill
Our beliefs are so powerful they drive our behaviours, control our actions and ultimately shape our destinies. Have you ever considered why you believe what you believe? Where do your beliefs come from? Most of us go around on auto pilot with our lives being controlled by a set of beliefs that may be limiting us or empowering us. It doesn`t matter whether they are "right"or "wrong", "true" or "false". It only matters whether they are helping or hindering us. Since the majority of our beliefs were instilled in us at a very young age don`t you think it might be a good idea to occasionally question their validity? If perception is reality and we become what we think about. What are you thinking about? What do you believe about your world and yourself? Before you answer, think very carefully. It`s very possible your beliefs could kill or cure you. Check out the following article and video by Dr. Lissa Rankin and make your own mind up.

"Most of us have heard of “the placebo effect”—the heal-inducing effect patients in clinical trials experience when they believe they’re getting a fancy new drug or surgery but are actually getting fake treatment. The placebo effect is real. It works about eighteen to eighty percent of the time, and it’s not just in your head—it actually dilates bronchi, heals ulcers, makes warts disappear, drops your blood pressure, and even makes bald men who think they’re getting Rogaine grow hair!

Unwanted Side Effects

But the placebo effect has a shadow side. The same mind-body power that can heal you can also harm you. When patients in double-blinded clinical trials are warned about the side effects they may experience if they’re given the real drug, approximately twenty-five percent experience sometimes severe side effects, even when they’re only taking sugar pills.
Those treated with nothing more than placebos often report fatigue, vomiting, muscle weakness, colds, ringing in the ears, taste disturbances, memory disturbances, and other symptoms that shouldn’t result from a sugar pill.
Interestingly, these “nocebo” complaints aren’t random; they tend to arise in response to the side effect warnings on the actual drug or treatment. The mere suggestion that a patient may experience negative symptoms in response to a medication (or a sugar pill) may be a self-fulfilling prophecy. For example, if you tell a patient treated with a placebo he might experience nausea, he’s likely to feel nauseous. If you suggest that he might get a headache, he may. Patients given nothing but saline who thought it was chemotherapy actually threw up and lost their hair!

When You Think You’re Going to Die

In another study, patients about to undergo surgery who were “convinced” of their impending death were compared to another group of patients who were merely “unusually apprehensive” about death. While the apprehensive bunch fared pretty well, those who were convinced they were going to die usually did.
Similarly, women who believed they were prone to heart disease were four times more likely to die. It’s not because these women had poorer diets, higher blood pressure, higher cholesterol, or stronger family histories than the women who didn’t get heart disease. The only difference between the two groups was their beliefs.
The nocebo effect is probably most obvious in “voodoo death”—when a person is cursed, told they will die, and then dies. The notion of voodoo death doesn’t just apply to witch doctors in tribal cultures. The literature shows that patients believed to be terminal who are mistakenly informed that they have only a few months to live have died within their given time frame, even when autopsy findings reveal no physiological explanation for the early death.

Dr. Steve’s Story

In response to what I said in my latest TEDx talk about the placebo effect’s evil twin, “the nocebo effect,” L. Chas sent me an email, telling me the story of her brother Steve, who was a physician diagnosed with the exact same illness that was his specialty. When he was diagnosed with malignant tumors in both lungs, his doctors told him that he had five years to live, and knowing what he knew about the disease, Steve believed this.
Exactly five years later, to the day, he was snorkeling in Maui when he was found unconscious on the shore. Steve was resuscitated, but he had been without oxygen to the brain for over four minutes and wound up in a coma until his family chose to withdraw life support.
L. Chas wrote, “More than anything else, I think my brother believed that, when diagnosed with his disease, a patient has ‘five good years left.’ Just as you’ve said in your videos: the nocebo effect. So sad it had to go this way.”

Medical Hexing

Every time your doctor tells you that you have an “incurable” illness or that you’ll be on medication for the rest of your life or that you have a five-percent five-year survival, they’re essentially cursing you with a form of “medical hexing.” They don’t mean to. They’re not trying to harm you. They know not what they do.
Doctors think they’re telling it to you straight, that you deserve to know, that you should be realistic and make arrangements, if necessary. But when they say such things, they instill in your conscious and subconscious mind a belief that you won’t get well, and as long as the mind holds this negative belief, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe you’ll never recover, you won’t.

The Moral of This Story

After reading through the 3500+ case studies documented in the medical literature in the Spontaneous Remission Project, which was compiled by the Institute of Noetic Sciences, I now believe there’s no such thing as an incurable illness. If you or someone you love is suffering from a “chronic,” “incurable,” or “terminal” illness and you want to optimize the chance for spontaneous remission, you have to start by cleansing your mind of any negative beliefs that will sabotage your self-healing efforts. My upcoming book Mind Over Medicine: Scientific Proof That You Can Heal Yourself offers tips for how you can change your negative beliefs to positive ones in order to optimize your chances".

What do you think? What do you believe?

Saturday 19 January 2013

"Life is hard and then you die?"

Is it really? If you listen to a lot of people they would try to convince you that it really is the case. "Times are hard", "I never have any luck", "It always happens to me", "Why can`t things be easier?" It`s interesting how we all want life to be easier. We want to minimise the difficulties, sidestep the challenges, avoid the problems that life seems to keep throwing at us, when the truth of the matter is that it is those self same challenges and problems that keep us alive. 




The paradox is that we yearn for the things that would speed up our demise. We create products to automate as many things as possible so we have to do less physical work so our underused muscles begin to atrophy. Even when we go to the gym, we have to drive there and then try to park as close to the door as possible. We want to eliminate stressing our brains too much with demanding problems that we can`t instantly fix, not realising that it is actually good for our brains to be used and stretched. We inadvertently want to rob ourselves of the huge satisfaction we derive from conquering a huge mental or physical challenge.

We hanker after the easy life not realising that we`ve probably already got it.

After all, "hard" and "easy" are both relative concepts aren`t they? Wasn`t Abraham Lincoln right when he said,

"People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be"

If you are going through a "hard" time at the moment just recognise you are going "through" it.  You will come out the other side.Nothing lasts forever. Lao Tzu in the classic Tao te Ching reminds  us of the ebb and flow of life:-
"There is a time for being ahead,
a time for being behind;
a time for being in motion,
a time for being at rest;
a time for being vigorous,
a time for being exhausted;
a time for being safe,
a time for being in danger".
There is a time for everything and nothing lasts forever. You need to remind yourself that "this too shall pass".
Why not reframe these situations by believing that life is made up of two things - good times and lessons.

When we are going through the "lessons" it might ease them by being grateful for the good times? And remember the only people who will never have bad times are already six feet under.

I vividly remember travelling through Tanzania and seeing the poorest
 of people and yet for some weird reason they were  all smiling and
 laughing. Maybe we need to temper our perspective of life with a healthy
 dose of gratitude? If you want to create a paradigm shift in your attitude,
watch this:-





                                                                      
 What do you think?

Saturday 12 January 2013

"37, The Age When Men Are At Their Happiest?"


According to the latest research life begins at 37 for men!

"It's the age at which many have established themselves on the career
ladder and started a family.

And it seems that 37 is when most men feel happiest, too.

A survey has revealed that by the time they have reached their late 30s,
the majority of men are in a happy relationship and have formed close
circle of friends with which to socialise.

The poll found that 43% of the 1,000 questioned said becoming a father
was the happiest day of their lives, followed by getting married (35%).

Phillip Hodson, fellow of the British Association for Counseling and
Psychotherapy, said men of 37 typically benefit from health and life
experience.

He said: 'It would be logical to think that men would be happier when
they are younger, when they are fitter and healthier.

'As men get older they become more prone to illness and more feeble.

'At 37, you are young enough not to be disillusioned by life, which
comes with the midlife crisis.

'But you are also old enough to have developed self-confidence, earned
some respect and authority and to have a sense of achievement.' "

Top moments in a man's life

1. Becoming a parent (43 per cent)

2. Getting married (35 per cent)

3. Seeing his favourite sports team winning the league (18 per cent)

4. Buying a new house (17 per cent)

5. Seeing a country sports team win a significant title (14 per cent)

6. Proposing to a partner (13 per cent)

7. Graduating/finishing full time education (9 per cent)

8. Buying a new car (7 per cent)

Source:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2226289/Life-begins-37-Men-happiest-age-having-climbed-career-ladder-started-family.html



O.K. so that`s what the research concludes, and many people will believe it, but here`s a better, more empowering belief:-

You decide when life begins - you can have it now, however old or young you are. Some people are hanging in there waiting for life to get better, waiting for "something" to happen and then they will be happy. Supposing it doesn`t? How long have you got? 

Happiness is your birthright - claim it now. 

Life will only change when you change, and until you change nothing changes.

Why not decide to make every moment count? After all, you just don`t know how long you`ve got. 
I strongly advise watching this clip of Randy Pausch giving his last lecture (preferably the full length version)


Friday 4 January 2013

Why New Year`s Resolutions Fail!

Since my last blog post about focusing on the power of goals in the last post, I have heard countless people jump on the "New Year Resolution" bandwagon making lists of things that we know statistically they won`t achieve! I have overheard countless conversations about what people are going to "really try to do this year" - meaning of course they have attempted the same things last year (and probably the year before!)

If this sounds like you, then here is something very useful I came across from Mark Peysha  (Robbins-Madanes Training):-



"When I make a New Years Resolution, I convert it into a Game Plan. Why? Because Resolutions have a reputation for not happening, right? If you want a resolution to work, it needs to be focused, action-based, and strategic.

Focused: make it about changing ONE thing at a time. The more specific, the better.
Action-based: commit to DOING something measurable. Talk is cheap, action is priceless.
Strategic: you are changing an existing system in your life. Be smart about how you do it.

Let's take a typical resolution - for instance "I want to lose 10 pounds."

Now, let's make it focused and action based. You do this by asking yourself: what's ONE action I can take consistently this month to help me lose weight?

Feel the difference? You're focusing on ONE concrete action now, the action that will make the biggest difference. Now, most people trying to change their eating habits have a "weak point" in their day where their willpower fails them. You want to protect yourself from that. If you're going to change one thing, try changing that one weak point. Let's say that your weak point is that, when you get home from work, you too many cookies.

Resolution: "Stop eating so many cookies."

Great. That's a more focused resolution. So now let's set up a game plan.

Game plan: set up my life so that I don't eat cookies after work.
-> eat a quality protein meal and hydrate before coming home.
-> do something else that's enjoyable before coming back from work.
-> get rid of cookies in the house, stock up on quality snacks.
-> what need am I meeting by eating cookies? What's a better way to meet that need? Do that.
-> how can I celebrate every day, and every week, that I succeed (in a non-food way)?

See the difference? Here's another one.

Resolution: "I need to stop procrastinating and write my book."

Game plan: Commit to writing 2 pages of my book per workday, during a "ritual time" that will not change. If I fail to sit down and write for at least 30 minutes, as a consequence I will write a check for $10 to my favorite charity. The next time I fail to write my 2 pages, I write a check for $20, then $40, then $80, and so on. Eventually I'm either really motivated to write, or I'm helping a lot of people! Continue this until I have 100 pages. (This is a win-win strategy: either I write and help myself or I fail to write and help others). At 100 pages this game plan stops, and I shift to editing the book.

See the difference? Do you think you could you make one of your New Years Resolutions more powerful by converting it into a Game Plan? Absolutely."


It`s simple and it works. No excuses!